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Baby shower – everything you need to know.

Perhaps you are expecting a baby soon. Maybe someone you know is expecting a child. Or perhaps you've found yourself in a situation where you need to organize a baby shower for a friend or family member and feel a bit uncertain. Don't worry; we are here to answer all your questions regarding the traditions of baby showers and how to organize them.

WHAT IS A BABY SHOWER?

Traditionally, a baby shower is an event that celebrates the impending arrival of a baby. The expectant mother and the unborn baby are the focal points of this celebration. The purpose of the baby shower is to show emotional support for the mother and to bring together many items needed for caring for the baby—gifts for the new mom! After all, babies require a lot of supplies, and their shopping list can become quite expensive! Baby showers can be elaborate events with activities and games, or they can be much more casual and low-key. It depends on the organizer's goals and hopefully the wishes of the expectant mother.

BABY SHOWER AND ITS TRADITION

Baby showers in their current form, as we know them today, are a relatively recent phenomenon. They appeared in Emily Post's book "Etiquette: The Blue Book of Social Usage" in 1937. Since it was not included in earlier editions of the book (1927 and 1922), we can reasonably assume that this tradition was not widely practiced at that time. Back then, the celebration was referred to as a “stork shower.” At that time, it was considered appropriate to hold the party in the early afternoon and invite only the mother's close female friends.

This tradition, where the mother was surrounded by female family members and friends, was not new; during the American colonial period, women organized "birth parties" at the mother's home. During these gatherings, women, including the midwife and close female relatives and friends, would join the mother as labor began and stay with her, sometimes for days, until the birth was completed. During these gatherings, the women present shared anecdotes, comforted and encouraged the mother, and exchanged gossip and recipes. The goal was to support the mother during childbirth and strengthen community bonds.

After childbirth, there was a 'lying-in' period. This period lasted about three to four weeks, during which time female members of the community would come to the new mother’s home, drink tea, and take care of household duties so that the mother could recover. Later, the mother would thank her female community by organizing a 'sigh party,' where she prepared a lavish meal for those who had helped her.

In addition to the sigh party, new mothers knew that they would repay the woman who helped them by attending their birth parties and lying-in periods.

The traditions of giving gifts at modern baby showers actually originated during the Victorian era. Celebrating a birth occurred after the baby was born, as Victorian women hid their pregnancies for as long as possible and withdrew from public life when they could no longer conceal it. After childbirth, female friends and family members would organize a tea party for the new mother. When gifts were given, they were often handmade.

When to hold a baby shower?

In the United States, baby showers are typically held in the early afternoon, possibly a remnant of Victorian-era tea parties. A baby shower is usually held about four to six weeks before the expected due date. This ensures that the pregnancy is progressing well and the risk of miscarriage is low, and it also helps avoid the interruption of an early arrival of the baby.

This timing, of course, depends on the mother's health and her preferences regarding the scheduling. If your party is not a surprise, it's best to consult the expectant mother and see what she likes.

It is also becoming increasingly common for people to organize evening baby showers or, for example, a baby shower brunch. Therefore, there is no need to strictly adhere to the early afternoon rule.

HOW TO ORGANIZE A BABY SHOWER?

Planning and organizing a baby shower can be approached in two ways. Either you offer to organize it yourself, or you are asked to do so. Typically, a friend or relative of the expectant mother organizes the baby shower, and it is perfectly acceptable for the expectant mother to ask someone to arrange the party on her behalf.

Typically, the person organizing the party is not an immediate family member (as this may come across as asking for gifts from family members and may seem in poor taste), but rather a close relative or good friend.

Who is invited to the baby shower, or the guest list?

Creating the guest list for a baby shower may seem like a simple task at first, but it’s important to consider several factors. Who you invite to the party largely depends on the format of the baby shower, family traditions, and the mother’s preferences.

Traditionally, baby showers have been events primarily attended by women—close friends, relatives, and colleagues of the expectant mother. This stems from a time when childbirth and childcare were considered women's domains. This format may still be appropriate if the expectant mother prefers the company of women or if the party organizer is aware that it aligns with the mother’s expectations and desires.

However, inclusive baby showers are becoming increasingly common, where guests of all genders are welcome, including the expectant father, male relatives, and friends. Some couples may prefer a 'co-ed' baby shower, where both expectant parents are the focus of the celebration and the guests include both men and women.

The guest list may also include children, especially if the expectant mother already has other children or if she is close to many families with kids. Including children can add playfulness and joy to the celebration, but as the party organizer, you need to ensure that there are suitable activities and treats for the younger guests as well.

Remember that the purpose of a baby shower is to support and celebrate the expectant mother and to share in the joy of the arrival of new life. When creating the guest list, the primary criterion should be who can share in this joy and whose presence will make the day truly special for the expectant mother.

In any case, consult with the expectant mother or, if the party is a surprise, with people who know her well to determine whose presence she would appreciate the most. Also, consider the size of the venue and any potential limitations—whether they be space constraints, budget, or current health regulations.

Baby shower invitations

Preparing and sending out baby shower invitations is an important part of planning the baby shower. The invitations convey not only the essential information such as location, time, and date but also create the first impression of the baby shower itself. Here are some tips for baby shower invitations:

1. Timing: It is recommended to send out invitations four to six weeks before the baby shower. This gives guests enough time to make their plans and purchase gifts.
2. Style and tone: The style and tone of the invitation should reflect the style of the baby shower itself. Is it formal or more casual? Traditional or modern? These factors will influence the design and wording of the invitation.
3. Content: The baby shower invitation should include at least the following information: the date and time of the baby shower, the location, the contact person, and the RSVP date.
4. Registry information: If the baby shower organizer has created a baby registry, this information can be included in the invitation. However, the invitation should never include a phrase that directly expresses the expectation of gifts.
5. RSVP: Ask guests to confirm their attendance so that you can plan for catering and seating arrangements. Set a specific date by which you would like to receive their responses.
6. Delivery method: While digital methods of sending invitations, such as email or social media, are becoming increasingly popular, traditional paper invitations are still relevant, especially for more formal events.
7. Language: The wording should be simple and understandable. It is best to avoid excessive formality or complex expressions that may cause confusion.

Hopefully, these guidelines will give you a better understanding of planning and sending out baby shower invitations and help you create an invitation that reflects your unique baby shower.

Baby shower favors

Baby shower favors, or thank-you gifts, are intended for guests to show appreciation for their participation in the festivities and to give them something to remember this joyful occasion. When choosing favors, you can consider the theme of the party, the mother’s preferences, or simply something cute and useful that the guests might enjoy.

Here are some ideas for baby shower favors:

1. Personalized candle: Choose small candles and decorate them with personalized labels that display the mother's name and the date of the party.
2. Soaps or hand creams: Small, beautiful handmade soaps or creams are practical gifts that guests can use in their daily lives.
3. Personalized tea or coffee: Package small amounts of favorite tea or coffee in beautiful containers decorated with the baby shower theme.
4. Edible favors: Small treat bags with personalized tags or cookies shaped like baby-themed designs (e.g., pacifiers, diapers) can be great favors.
5. Plants or seeds: Small plants, such as succulents, or seed packets with personalized labels can symbolize the growth of new life.

It is important to remember that the purpose of baby shower favors is to show appreciation and gratitude to the guests for their support during this special time. The favors do not need to be expensive, but they should be chosen carefully to ensure they are meaningful and pleasant. The selected gifts should align with the overall theme of the party and reflect the personality and taste of the expectant mother. Here you will find 55 fun ideas for baby shower favors.

Baby shower games and activities

Baby shower games and activities are essential for making the event fun and memorable. They can include traditional baby-themed games as well as creative and engaging activities that help guests relax and enjoy the celebration.

1. Baby Bingo: This is a classic game where each guest receives a bingo card featuring various baby-related items. As gifts are opened and an item on the bingo card appears among the presents, the guest marks it off. The first person to complete a line (horizontally, vertically, or diagonally) is the winner.
2. Guess the Baby Food: Purchase several jars of different types of baby food and remove the labels. Players must taste each food and guess what it is. This can lead to plenty of laughter and fun!
3. Guess the Baby Photo: Ask guests to bring childhood pictures of themselves. Hang them on the wall and let each guest try to guess who is who. This can be a great icebreaker and will bring back many fond memories.
4. Baby Due Date: Ask each guest to write down on a piece of paper when they think the baby will be born and place it in a sealed box. After the baby is born, the mother can open the box and see who was the closest.
5. Baby Chronicles: Distribute small pieces of paper and pens to guests and ask them to write funny or inspiring stories or wishes for the expectant baby. These can serve as lovely keepsakes for the mother and baby in the future.
6. Diaper Changing Race: Provide guests with baby dolls or stuffed animals and see who can change the diaper the fastest. This game can lead to lots of laughter, especially if dads or expectant fathers are present!

When selecting baby shower games, it is important to consider the interests and preferences of the guests. Some may enjoy traditional games, while others may prefer more relaxed and creative activities. It’s essential that everyone feels welcomed and included and enjoys the celebration. Here are 50 baby shower games, from which you are sure to find something you like.

Baby shower food and drinks

Baby shower food and drinks can be both delicious and creative. As you celebrate the arrival of new life, it's important that all details are thoughtfully considered, including the dishes and beverages served at the party. When planning the menu for the baby shower, several factors should be taken into account, such as guests' dietary preferences, the time of day the party will take place, and, of course, the theme of the party.

One popular choice is to serve finger foods or snacks that can be easily held and eaten. This allows guests to chat, play games, and enjoy the party without worrying about utensils or tables. Such foods can include mini sandwiches, a selection of fruits and cheeses, vegetable platters, or even small pieces of cake.

Some party organizers choose a specific theme that is also reflected in the selection of food and drinks. For example, if the theme is 'Mermaid,' you might serve blue lemonade and ocean-themed cookies. If the theme is 'Jungle,' the menu could include tropical fruits and juices.

Since a baby shower is an alcohol-free event, it's important to offer a diverse selection of beverages. This can include various juices, smoothies, sodas, tea, or coffee. A creative approach could also involve serving mocktails or non-alcoholic cocktails, that look just as elegant and taste as delicious as their alcoholic counterparts.

The party cannot end without dessert. There are many different options for a baby shower, ranging from themed cookies and candy sticks to a grand baby shower cake

Regardless of the style of food and drinks at the baby shower, it's important that they are delicious, nutritious, and meet the needs of the guests. This approach helps ensure that the celebration is memorable not only for the soon-to-be parents of the arriving baby but also for all the guests.

Baby shower gifts

Baby shower gifts are a traditional way to show support to expectant parents and to assist in preparing for the arrival of a new family member. There are many options when choosing gifts, primarily depending on the parents' needs, the baby's gender, and personal preferences. Here are some ideas to consider:

1. Baby essentials: Baby items such as diapers, pacifiers, swaddles, bath products, and baby clothes are always appreciated. These are practical gifts that parents will definitely use and need.
2. Nursery decor: If you know the style or theme the parents are designing for the nursery, nursery decorations can make excellent gifts. You might consider framed pictures, wall decals, night lights, or baby blankets.
3. Books: Baby books are excellent gifts that help parents start their child's library. Reading to a child is an important part of their development, and books can also serve as keepsakes that the child will cherish as they grow.
4. Toys: A baby's first toys can be simple, soft, and squeaky. Choose toys that are safe and designed for infants.
5. Gift cards: If you're unsure what to give as a gift, a gift card can be an excellent choice. It could be a gift card for a baby store, a restaurant, or a service provider, such as a cleaning service, which can be especially helpful for new parents who have their hands full with baby care.
6. Handmade gifts: Handmade items, such as knitted blankets, crocheted toys, or decorated photo albums, can be especially meaningful and personal. They show that you are willing to invest time and effort into creating something unique and special.
7. Baby fund: If you want to give a gift that lasts longer than diapers or baby clothes, consider setting up a baby fund or contributing to an existing fund. This can be a great way to support the child's future and provide peace of mind for the parents.

Always consider what the parents may need or want, and don't hesitate to ask them if they have a baby shower wish list. Your thoughtfulness and support are likely to be the most valuable gifts for them.